At the core of the Christian life is charity, often referred to as love in action. Charity is more than an emotion or a feeling of affection; it’s the selfless, sacrificial love that mirrors Christ’s love for us. It is the virtue that transforms our relationship with others and with God, and it’s the fulfillment of all other virtues.
This week, we dive into charity—the virtue that calls us to love not just in word or feeling but in concrete actions. True charity is about seeing Christ in everyone we meet and loving them as He does. This kind of love is often challenging, requiring us to go beyond what’s comfortable, but it is also the most rewarding and transformative.
The Path to Living Charity: When Love Feels Costly
In theory, loving others sounds simple, but in practice, it often feels difficult. Loving those who love us back is easy enough, but charity calls us to go further. It calls us to love those who are hard to love—those who have hurt us, those we don’t agree with, and even those we don’t know. It calls us to give of ourselves, even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable.
Living out true charity requires letting go of our selfish tendencies and seeing the dignity of every person as a child of God. It’s not just about grand gestures or big acts of generosity; charity is often found in the small, unnoticed sacrifices we make for others daily. It’s the patience we show to someone who frustrates us, the time we take to listen to a friend in need, or the kindness we extend to a stranger.
Ask yourself: Who is the hardest person for you to love right now? It might be someone close to you or a person you encounter only occasionally. This week, consider how you can begin to love them with the kind of selfless charity that Christ models for us.
Charity in Action: The Parable of the Good Samaritan
One of the clearest examples of charity in Scripture is the Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). In this story, a man is beaten and left for dead on the side of the road. Several people pass by without helping him, but a Samaritan—a member of a group despised by the Jews—stops to care for him. The Samaritan not only tends to the man’s immediate needs but goes out of his way to ensure his long-term well-being.
This parable teaches us that charity knows no boundaries. It crosses cultural, social, and personal divides to reach those in need. Charity isn’t about helping only those we like or those who can repay us. It’s about loving everyone, especially those who are most in need, without expecting anything in return.
The Good Samaritan’s love was not just a passing feeling of pity; it was a deep, compassionate love that led to action. This is what charity looks like—love in action that seeks the good of the other, even when it costs us something.
Why Charity Matters: The Greatest Commandment
Charity isn’t just one virtue among many; it’s the foundation of all virtues. Jesus Himself said that the greatest commandments are to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind, and to love our neighbor as ourselves (Matthew 22:37-39). Charity is the fulfillment of the law because it encompasses everything. If we love God, we will naturally want to follow His commandments. If we love others, we will naturally act with kindness, patience, and generosity.
Spiritually, charity draws us closer to God because God is love. The more we love others, the more we reflect God’s nature. Charity transforms our hearts, making us more like Christ, who gave everything for our sake.
Psychologically, living out charity shifts our focus from ourselves to others. This selflessness leads to deeper satisfaction, stronger relationships, and a greater sense of purpose. When we focus on giving rather than receiving, we find joy in serving others and feel more connected to the world around us.
If you’re ready to put charity into action, use the Holy Habits app to set daily reminders to perform acts of love. Whether it’s reaching out to someone who needs a kind word or offering help to a family member without being asked, these small acts of charity add up, creating a habit of love.
Charity in Practice: Your Daily Challenge
This week, the challenge is to live out charity in practical, tangible ways. Charity is not about waiting for the perfect moment to perform a grand act of love. It’s about finding small opportunities every day to give of yourself.
Your challenge:
- Look for someone to serve today: Whether it’s a family member, a friend, or a stranger, find one person you can help in a meaningful way. It doesn’t have to be a big gesture; sometimes, the smallest acts of love have the greatest impact.
- Pray for those who are hard to love: Each day, take a moment to pray for someone you find difficult to love. Ask God to soften your heart toward them and to give you the grace to see them as He does.
- Extend love where it’s least expected: Try to perform one act of charity in secret—something that won’t bring you any recognition or reward. This could be as simple as cleaning up without being asked or paying for someone’s coffee without them knowing.
Keep track of your acts of charity in the Holy Habits app, and consider forming a group with family or friends to encourage one another in living out love. By sharing your experiences, you’ll not only grow in charity but also help others do the same.
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Charity in Scripture and Tradition: The Highest Virtue
The Bible speaks of charity as the greatest of all virtues. 1 Corinthians 13:13 sums it up beautifully: “So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”
St. Paul tells us that, without charity, nothing else matters. We can have all the faith, wisdom, and talent in the world, but if we don’t have love, we gain nothing. This is because charity is the very nature of God. When we live in charity, we live in God.
In Church tradition, the saints consistently taught that charity is the essence of holiness. St. Teresa of Calcutta lived her entire life based on the principle of charity, saying, “Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.” Her life is a testimony to the power of small acts of charity done with love.
Reflection for the Week: How Can You Live Out Charity?
As we focus on charity this week, take some time to reflect on how you can live out this virtue in your daily life. Are there areas where you’ve been holding back from loving others fully? What opportunities are there for you to give more freely of yourself?
Here are a few questions to help guide your reflection:
- Is there someone in your life who is difficult to love? How can you show them charity this week?
- What small acts of love can you perform daily, especially when no one is watching?
- How can you grow in your love for God, recognizing that this will naturally lead to greater love for others?
Consider sharing your reflections with a group in the Holy Habits app. You can start a group with family or friends to encourage each other in living out charity. Together, you’ll find strength and inspiration as you walk the path of love.
Let’s Walk Together: Share Your Journey
Use the hashtag #HolyHabitsCharity to share your acts of love and kindness this week. Whether it’s a small gesture, a moment of compassion, or going the extra mile for someone in need, your story can inspire others on their journey of love.
Looking Ahead: Next Week’s Virtue—Kindness
Next week, we’ll explore the virtue of kindness—how simple, daily acts of kindness can transform our relationships and make love more tangible in our lives. Kindness is the practical outworking of charity, and it offers us opportunities to live out love in small but meaningful ways. Be sure to subscribe to our blog or download the Holy Habits app to stay connected.
Building Holiness One Virtue at a Time
As you focus on charity this week, remember that love is the foundation of all holiness. Every act of charity brings us closer to God and transforms the world around us. Together, we can live out this calling, one holy habit at a time.
We believe that the path to holiness is attainable, not in grand, fleeting gestures, but in daily, intentional habits. Holy Habits exists to empower you to live a life of grace in the midst of a busy world. To love God more deeply, serve others more fully, and build a life that reflects the love of Christ.
The time to build those habits is now. Let’s start today.
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